On 8 Oct 1816 Tamar married Lieut. Gideon Barstow (24480) , son of Benjamin Barstow (9449) (22 Jul 1690-ca 1751) & Sarah Barden (43784) (30 Apr 1710-), in Pembroke, MA. Born 14 Feb [1737/8] in Pembroke, MA.395 Gideon was baptized in First Congegational Church of Hanover, on 9 Apr 1738.446 Gideon died in Mattapoisett, MA on 9 Mar 1826.306 Buried in Barlow Cemetery, Mattapoisett.

From the Pembroke Vital Records:395
    Gideon, son of Benjamin and Sarah Barstow, born 14 Feb 1727/8. Perhaps this recorded date is wrong and he was born ten years later.

Barlow Cemetery, Mattapoisett, Plymouth County, Massachusetts
    Gideon Barstow, d. 9 Mar 1826 æ. 82
    Jane Barstow, d. 1 Apr 1816 æ. 84